My female should have a litter before she is spayed.

False. The earlier she is spayed, the healthier she will be for the rest of her life. She is less likely to develop mammary cancer, a very serious and potentially fatal form of cancer. If spaying occurs after her first heat, this incidence climbs to 7 percent and after the second heat the risk is 25 percent.

I'll find good homes for all of the litter.

You may, but each home you find means one less for each dog or cat living in a shelter or rescue facility. Also, in less than one year, each litter mate may have created his or her own litter, adding to even more unwanted animals.

My pet is so special; I want one just like her.

A great pet doesn't mean her offspring will be a carbon copy. Personalities are determined by many factors. Color, markings, and physical traits are unpredictable. A pet is more often a reflection of it's owner, training, and care.

I can make money raising puppies or kittens.

False. Nurturing a pregnant female properly to birth can be expensive and difficult, especially with complications. A litter of puppies or kittens require veterinary exams and initial vaccinations against diseases. It takes many years of research about bloodlines and breeding to make intelligent choices to breed with the purpose of improving the breed standards. Others who choose to breed produce pets with temperament and health problems such as hip dysplasia, cancer, autoimmune disease or allergies. Just because you may own a purebred, doesn?t mean it should be bred.

My pet should experience sex and birth.

False. Sex, for a dog is simply the result of a powerful instinctive drive to reproduce. This statement is often made by a person over-identifying with their dog. A pet doesn't have any concept of sexual identity or ego. Therefore, he won't feel like "less of a male."

My children should experience the miracle of birth.

False. Many videos and books are available to teach your children about birth in a responsible way. Births usually occur at night and in seclusion, so it is likely to be missed. Allowing your pet to produce offspring that you have no intention of keeping is teaching irresponsibility. The reality of death is experiencing an animal being euthenized because there aren't enough homes for them. Responsibility is preventing the births of unwanted animals is saving the lives of others in need of homes in shelters.

Spaying or neutering will alter my pet's personality.

False. Regardless of the age your pet is spayed or neutered, your pet will remain loving, caring and protective. Any slight changes will be a positive result of the reduced need to breed, due to a calmed pet.

My pet will get fat and lazy after spaying or neutering.

False. Lack of exercise and overfeeding makes pets fat and lazy (similar to humans). Pets typically become calmer as they get older, whether neutered or unneutered. If your pet previously roamed excessively in search of a mate, he or she will be more satisfied to remain close to your home and family. This does result in fewer burned calories. A slightly reduced food ration and some exercise will result in a happy, healthy pet of proper weight.

Sterilization surgery is painful for my pet.

False. Spaying and neutering is a common surgery performed on animals. Through anesthesia, pain medications and proper post-op care, your pet will resume normal behavior in a few days.

Spaying and neutering my pet will be expensive.

False. There are many low-cost spay/neuter clinics, which exist to reduce the cost factor in the decision to spay and neuter. Some have programs to assist families who are on low-income assistance programs. The veterinary expenses for problems as a result of not neutering are far more expensive. The price of a spay/neuter is small compared to the health of your pet and the prevention of the births of more unwanted pets.